I saw video from Ted.com.
It's so interesting for me.
Kathryn Schulz speaks about the actual problem.
We all make mistakes, and then feel bad.
I think you will agree with me that people tend not to make mistakes. But why?
Because then you feel bad?
And why is it so unpleasant?
Because so take in our society.
If you make mistakes, it drops your reputation getting worse relationship with you.
We from childhood accustomed to the idea that the successful are those who are not mistaken. Is it true?
In any case, I do not want to believe it.
I believe that the errors are different.
Some fatal, others are not dangerous.
Because one can lose everything, or do not get what you want, opportunity slip away forever.
Some errors are fixable.
Yes, difficult to correct the error.
In many cases, you could not have achieved your goal without making mistakes.
But when a person gains experience, that is sometimes more worthwhile than the original goal.
Kathryn Schulz argues that everyone is closed in the bubble of its rightness.
In which he does not see and does not understand all that outside of this bubble.
When you're locked in the right, you can not hear the interlocutor.
In disputes with him, you slachala suspect that the interviewee does not know much.
In a time when it appears that the assumption is not correct, you have the MOWOE the assumption that the other person an idiot.
The next assumption - especially your opponent misrepresents the facts.
What do you have as a result?
Terrible attitude towards others.
Some errors are perfectly safe.
For example, you expect pasta for dinner, but the result is a potato.
The worst thing is that you will experience - a little disappointed.
In any case, you must always keep in mind that you may be mistaken.
If you break out of the bubble - it will be a huge step in your development.
May 2013
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