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In today's world, more and more people have the problems of choosing a future mate.

It is an actual theme.

Can we choose a future mate alone or parental advice?

Today I will try to reflect.

To begin with the fact that a lot of people have difficulties to find a man who would come up to us.

We want to feel the love of a man, his concern.

Also, we want to devote herself to him.

Doubtless, we are all human , and we have the right to mistakes.

Sometimes, some people may be disappointed in each other and suffer.

But it is just a bitter experience.

But whether it is necessary to consult with parents, if you made a mistake the first time and are afraid to enter into another relationship?

On the one hand, parents of adults who lived a long life.

They have more experience and knowledge.

They are our parents and we do not want to bad.

One cannot deny that every parent should tell the children that beauty is not the main factor by which to choose the partner for life.

Besides, parents notice disadvantages of the future bride or groom faster than we are.

Because we are in a state of love and see only the good.

Parents are good friends.

They want that we made rose -colored glasses and looked with new eyes at the man.

One should note here that parents fear for us and want us to be happy.

To our parents we are always children, and no matter how much we age.

On the other hand, young people want to be adults and live independently.

They want to decide whom to choose and love.

We need to make an informed decision.

This is a serious choice because our fate depends only on but also the fate of our future children.

One must admit that in assessing the future life partner plays an important role: the inner world, a way of life leads, as is able to solve problems, how to relate to children and so on.

Nevertheless, one should accept that in future family financial situation is very important because you need to think about the children.

Also, I think it is necessary to pay attention to the behavior of the parents of the future bride or groom.

Because their child has formed a model of behavior in the family.

In conclusion I want to say that in the choice of the future mate, we still have to consult with parent, or at least listen to their advice.

This is a complex and difficult choice.

We let into our lives a man who will bring the most valuable thing in life.

It is our children.

But still we have to listen to your heart.

Parents did not speak, but the heart can not order.