“Marriage is a wonderful institution, but who wants to live in an institution”
Groucho Marx
Many people, both men and women are afraid to marry for one simple reason - afraid of losing independence and be responsible for the established union.
Undoubtedly, the one who married are unlikely to be able to walk all night long in a fun company with friends or to spend the all weekends without fear of running into a misunderstanding, over a beer.
After all, there is the world of things is absolutely good or bad in itself.
If we cannot to accept this fact, it will be mean to divide the world into black and white, forgetting the variety of colors and shades.
The marriage brings with it a lot of advantages, for which people decide to change their peaceful and well-established life.
Firstly, children growing up in a full marriage are happier and are protected members of society.
Secondly, the highest level of spiritual closeness between married couples is possible only through love and understanding, especially if the marriage is sanctified by church and the young people believe (cherish) in the sanctity of marriage.
Thirdly, you have a constant sexual life without the risk of catching any sore.
Fifthly, and finally, the economical and domestic help (aid) is also an important argument in favor of marriage.
You can be sure that you will not leave in trouble.
On the other hand, you have to understand that you lose a certain share of freedom when you want to marry.
Moreover, you have to be prepared for it and you will face with problems such as raising kids, financial ответственность, fighting between your desires and your responsibilities, spending all your leisure with family.
For example, support that young man is not used to smoke inside, clean room and is used to skinting up socks, is used to leaving a lot of dirty dishes until it lasts, washing the dishes in the case you have any caps at home or young woman used to taking bath so long, or used to talking on the phone with a friend two or three hours, or she is not used to cooking small doses every day in pursuit of keeping fit.
The examples are quite innocent, however even they can cause discontent of partner and strained relationship.
In conclusion in above, I suppose that just a family can be a safe haven and a place forgiveness that welcomes one, where you can be understood and be supported.
Taking the most important decision in his life not to be in a hurry with the choice, because marriage is not in a way you choose shoes in a store.
I completely agree with the words of Robert C Dodds «The goal in marriage not to think alike but think together».
December 2015
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