Korektoj

1.

(What reasons can be for arguments?) I believe that the main reason to argue is misunderstanding of each other or unwillingness to understand each other.

Do you remember a song of Bittles: "...Try to see it my way Only time will tell if I am right or I am wrong While you see it your way There's a chance that we might fall apart before too long We can work it out We can work it out..." 2.

What are distinguishing features of arguments between two people, when they are: two men two women a man and a woman?

I wouldn't say that there is a difference between genders's behavior.

It is so outdated to compare men and women.

I am triggered! I am joking.

I guess it is better to ask about people when they are in different roles, for example colleagues, or spouses, or parents and child. 3.

How can we deal with an argument?

Can you name some tips?

I have read a psychological book where was written that there are two types of situations in your life - pleasant and useful.

The second type is about arguments as well, so useful situations help you to understand your inner conflicts.

The author wrote that you need to be thankful to person who gives you an opportunity for self-development.

You just need to solve your inner conflicts and after that there will be no conflicts with people as well. 4.

"It's a bad thing for a couple to argue".

What's your opinion? Do you agree? Why?

I don't think it's a bad thing, but you need to be careful and not attack your partner.

I believe that it is important to discuss or even argue when you feel that there is a conflict between your expectations and your partner's behavior.

If you don't tell, nothing will change and it becomes worse and worse.

You will feel frustrating and will suffer in silence and one day you will explode from accumulated emotions.

And then nobody will survive, it will be fighting with blood, tears, offences. 5.

Would you rather argue or walk away? Why?

I would rather argue.

However sometimes it is better to walk away, take a deep breath, calm down and after that return to argument or just for a discussion.

I hope you saw «How I met your mother».

Do you remember Lilly and Marshal?

They created Pauseland in case they need to have a rest when they feel losing their tempers.