As I understand love is something that should last during all the time you are going out together with your lover, than engage, marry, grow children, age and die.
It must be something sacred, right? Now think.
All our feeling like happiness, hate, anger, joy, sadness, etc. are passing.
They are changeable and make an influence that is not worth our worries and doesn't tie our mind.
The feelings you call love are actually the feelings you have when you fall in love, but this feelings are also not eternal, so that many people think the love ends and break up.
This happends when the infatuation is changed by the irritation or anger which rise when we meet our partner's drowbacks.
The period when we enjoy the boy/girlfriend's nature, when everything is shallow and covert is changed by the period when people quarrel and disagree because of some habits, points, thoughts and actions.
It comes between their perfect previous relations and cause a bust-up.
But it is the preceding time before the period when a couple try to understand, accept, forgive and negotiate.
And don't forget that during this time all your feelings change: you can hate, you can appreciate, you can be offended and offend, but you just UNDERSTAND that this person is closer that anyone.
You UNDERSTAND that this person is somebody you are attached to.
And that's why you can go through all the difficulties .
You can accept and forgive.
But the understanding of the first steps to a real love appears only if the relationship is built with the help of the mutual truthfulness, absolute confidence, faith, loyalty and consciousness.
Only then you will be able to understand what is real love.
Love is actually mutual truthfulness, absolute confidence, faith, loyalty and consciousness.
When these all comes from your soul and embraces your lover, it can last forever.
Not the feeling, but a real loyalty and an open heart, the understanding of the value of your dear partner to you.
The conscious understanding that flows in your blood.
That is real love that can destroy the misfortune, fails and mistakes.
And all little quarrels and misunderstangings will be just a pattern on the sheet of love...
February 2015
Vota adesso! 