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Hello everybody,
How to Be Polite in German: Using Formal and Informal Address


In today's lesson you will learn how to be polite in German.
Hello everyone,


Well, I guess every foreigner has heard about that famous German formal version of 'you'.
In today's lesson, we will explore the nuances of politeness in the German language, focusing on how to properly address people in both formal and informal settings.


# The informal translation is '<nowiki/>'''du'''', which is used when you're talking to family members, friends, basically people you're close to or when you talk to other adolescents or children.
== Understanding the Formal and Informal 'You' in German ==
# When you're talking to an authority person, like adults, officers and teachers, you must say '<nowiki/>'''sie''''.
When learning German, one of the first things you might notice is that there are two different ways to say 'you': the informal 'du' and the formal 'Sie'. Understanding when to use each is crucial for navigating social situations and showing respect.
# So when you're talking to your classmate you say 'Kannst du mir helfen?' (Can you help me?) and when you're talking to your teacher you say 'Können sie mir helfen?'. Both has the same translation.
# When you can't say for sure if the person you're talking to is the same age as you are or maybe already over 18, you should better say 'sie' because if the person really is older than 18 he or she would feel offended.
# Another point is writing formal letters and e-mails.
# The formal 'you' is written 'Sie' and the informal 'you' can be written 'du' but also 'Du'.  
# The same goes for the formal way of 'Ihre' (your), 'Ihr' (your) 'Ihnen' (you) and 'Ihren' (your).
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=== a. The Informal 'du' ===
The informal 'du' is used when talking to family members, friends, children, or peers. Essentially, it is reserved for people you are close to or have an equal standing with. For example, you would say 'Kannst du mir helfen?' (Can you help me?) when speaking to a classmate or friend.
 
=== b. The Formal 'Sie' ===
On the other hand, the formal 'Sie' is used when addressing authority figures, older adults, or individuals you are not familiar with. This includes teachers, police officers, or strangers. When speaking to a teacher, for example, you would say 'Können Sie mir helfen?' (Can you help me?). Note that the English translation remains the same, but the level of formality in German is different.
 
When in doubt, it is generally safer to use 'Sie' as using 'du' with someone older or in a position of authority could be seen as disrespectful.
 
== Using Formality in Written Communication ==
When writing letters or emails, it is important to maintain the appropriate level of formality. The formal 'you' should be capitalized ('Sie'), while the informal 'you' can be written as either 'du' or 'Du'. The same capitalization rules apply to formal possessive pronouns and forms of address, such as 'Ihre' (your), 'Ihr' (your), 'Ihnen' (you), and 'Ihren' (your).
 
== Conclusion ==
In conclusion, understanding the differences between formal and informal address is essential for demonstrating politeness in German. By using the correct form of 'you' and capitalizing accordingly in written communication, you can navigate social situations with ease and show respect to those you interact with.


==Related Lessons==
==Related Lessons==

Revision as of 23:40, 19 March 2023

Be polite in German

How to Be Polite in German: Using Formal and Informal Address

Hello everyone,

In today's lesson, we will explore the nuances of politeness in the German language, focusing on how to properly address people in both formal and informal settings.

Understanding the Formal and Informal 'You' in German

When learning German, one of the first things you might notice is that there are two different ways to say 'you': the informal 'du' and the formal 'Sie'. Understanding when to use each is crucial for navigating social situations and showing respect.

a. The Informal 'du'

The informal 'du' is used when talking to family members, friends, children, or peers. Essentially, it is reserved for people you are close to or have an equal standing with. For example, you would say 'Kannst du mir helfen?' (Can you help me?) when speaking to a classmate or friend.

b. The Formal 'Sie'

On the other hand, the formal 'Sie' is used when addressing authority figures, older adults, or individuals you are not familiar with. This includes teachers, police officers, or strangers. When speaking to a teacher, for example, you would say 'Können Sie mir helfen?' (Can you help me?). Note that the English translation remains the same, but the level of formality in German is different.

When in doubt, it is generally safer to use 'Sie' as using 'du' with someone older or in a position of authority could be seen as disrespectful.

Using Formality in Written Communication

When writing letters or emails, it is important to maintain the appropriate level of formality. The formal 'you' should be capitalized ('Sie'), while the informal 'you' can be written as either 'du' or 'Du'. The same capitalization rules apply to formal possessive pronouns and forms of address, such as 'Ihre' (your), 'Ihr' (your), 'Ihnen' (you), and 'Ihren' (your).

Conclusion

In conclusion, understanding the differences between formal and informal address is essential for demonstrating politeness in German. By using the correct form of 'you' and capitalizing accordingly in written communication, you can navigate social situations with ease and show respect to those you interact with.

Related Lessons