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How to make Italian man love you


I'm Russian girl who fell in love with Italian man. He moved to St. Petersburg from Switzerland and he is the best man I have ever met.

The day I met him was the best day in my life. But now I' m the unhappiest girl in the world because he does not love me. I did my best to make him love me. I even started to learn Italian. But he doesn' t love me.

So I came to a conclusion that Italian men don&rsquo t love anybody except themselves.

They look good, have good manners, say so many sweet words but they do not love.

Girls! Be careful with Italians!

They will make you love them, make you mad about them, but won't spend a bit of their feelings for you!

PaJoKz28 profile picture PaJoKz28   

Stop being so stereotypical not every Italian is the same, I'm Italian and I've been with my girl for 3 years and a half... 

    Jul 25, 2014 @ 22:09
fabioc76 profile picture fabioc76   
what can i say as an Italian guy..... thankfully, not all men are the same.
if you need someone to talk italin with, you can contact me. Anyway...i wish you good luck with men...maybe don't choose an italian one see ya. ciao.
    Sept 27, 2012 @ 17:28
  • vincent profile picture vincent   
    thanks for the advice
      Dec 01, 2012 @ 13:06
Miranda33 profile picture Miranda33   

I always found them very attractive.

    Aug 27, 2011 @ 00:33
Miranda33 profile picture Miranda33   

I had an exsperience and heard that is you sleep with them they loose interest to you, no matter how much they were chasing you before to achieve this.

    Aug 27, 2011 @ 00:29
Crra29 profile picture Crra29   

  I went to italy last summer, the first week of being there i thought the same, all charming men but never worth it. A group of guys me and my friends became friendly with were nice friendly men, one *nick always spoke about his brother, *theo, who i thought sounded the same as all we'd met, once we met him he was the most genuine man i've ever met, i fell in love with him and we have been together ever since. I visit every month, as does he. The langaguage barrier can be hard, but were getting there. 

    Jun 22, 2011 @ 12:57
sweetie2 profile picture sweetie2   


This has made for interesting reading for me. I have started talking to an italian guy, who has been very honest and open about what he wants in a relationship. We have been chatting for a couple of weeks via email. Have now started chatting on messenger. The thing is he has told me he loves be but we have never met. Also im struggling with some of the things he says ,because they are so lovely. I am not gullible but struggling with whether he is true to what he is saying, or whether he is trying to woo me.

Am i being dumb !! i dont know but if any italian guy out there can help then it would be appreicated.

    Jun 11, 2011 @ 18:54
coldfire85 profile picture coldfire85   

...i was so curious about this topic, and i've been reading lots of comments...untill i really was fed up with all of such stories. C'MON GUYS!!!! i just can't believe in 2010 there are still people who really do care of stereotypes...

Italian men are just like everyone else: idiots and smart guys are everywhere. If you have to judge people, do that about the person who is in front of you: general opinions are ALWAYS wrong. whatever topic, whatever person....and, in my opinion, this is even more true about love. Loving a person is something personal: you just can't compare one single person behaviour to kinda of national use.

    Jun 03, 2010 @ 08:51